Best of 2012! Erotic Spanking 101: Positions & Toys (NSFW)

Spanking seems like a lost art to many non-kinksters. More than taboo, it seems like it could be painful or malicious. At GetLusty, we're all about educating so you do it right. Spanking can be really enjoyable. It can also provide a different set of sensations during your sex sessions than you normally don't get. Before doing the more kinky activities, we do recommend you read Jean-Luc Gothos Sexual Negotiation 101 and talk about consent. Always, always, always talk about it before you do it! Let each other know you're curious about doing something different. You know--shaking things up a little.

That being said, you heard from our long-time writer Ellen Dukes about whipping and flogging. Now, how about a more rounded out view on erotic spanking? We think this practice is rather sexy, so GetLusty's Rachel Colias is here to report on why and how you can try this erotic foreplay artfully.

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Have your fantasies ever included being disciplined? Do you become aroused by rough, consensual play? Is the idea of being someone’s submissive partner one you enjoy? If you answered yes to any of these questions, or are excited by the scenarios, you may be interested in exploring erotic spanking! The technical term for being aroused by spanking is spankophilia, and you don’t have to be on the receiving end to enjoy it! Spankophilia also includes becoming aroused by delivering a spanking to other parties.

As simple as spanking sounds, those here at GetLusty for Couples are here to explain how complex it can really be. Between different positions, toys, foreplay, costumes and role play, it can get more complicated than you’d think. But if erotic spanking is something you want to try, or if you want to mix up your spanking routine, I’m sure we can offer you a great selection to choose from!

The possibilities for erotic spanking are so extensive that we’ve decided to split the article up into two parts. This first part outlines different positions and toys that are great for spanking.

While many may assume erotic spanking is a more modern kink, there’s evidence that it actually dates back to around the sixth century b.c. The evidence for this being an image found in an Etruscan burial site depicting an eroticized flagellation, or, flogging. This erotic punishment also permeated quite a bit into Victorian culture and, more specifically, pornography. Of course it’s hard to say where and when it truly started, but it’s hardly outdated! Let’s get started on the basics.

Positions 

What better place to start than the how? It’s easy to assume that most positions include a person being in a bent over position, but it doesn’t necessarily have to be that bland. Here are a few tips on different ways to set up the act: (Remember! You can add ankle, wrist, or body restraints to any of these positions!)

#1 The spanker sits in the middle of a long couch,  while the spankee — person being spanked — lays stomach-down across their lap with their ass positioned directly over the spanker’s crotch. If the spanker happens to be male-bodied, this gives the spankee a wonderfully exciting sensation when he/she/they start(s) to become aroused. This is also a pretty comfortable position for the spankee.

#2 The spankee kneels on a couch or chair, facing backwards, bending over with their hands on the back of the furniture. The spanker stands in front of the couch or chair, facing the spankee’s back. This gives the spanker a pretty dominant position considering they’re practically standing over the spankee and is perfect for dominant/submissive play.

#3 The spankee lies stomach-down on the floor, ass either flat or slightly elevated if you want to tuck a pillow under the spankee’s stomach, while the spanker either stands or kneels above them.

#4 A modification to the previous option, the spankee can also lay stomach-down on a bed, table, or any other flat surface that allows for the spanker to stand over them.

#5 Both the spanker and spankee are standing for this one. The spankee leans slightly forward, hands either flat against a wall or holding on to something like a table or door frame. The spanker stands behind or slightly beside the spankee.

#6 Of course, the classic spankee bent over the spanker’s lap. This is different from the first scenario in that it’s generally performed in a chair where the spankee is entirely bent over, not just lying down. Again, if the spanker is male-bodied there’s an added pleasure bonus for the spankee!

#7 The spankee bends over a table, lying stomach-down on its surface, while the spanker stands behind.

#8 The spankee is bent over the shoulder or the arm of the spanker.

#9 Looking for something a little more serious and expensive? Try purchasing a spanking bench! This apparatus comes in quite a few positional styles and can include rings for restraints.

All of the above-mentioned techniques are suggestions that can easily be modified to fit different scenarios or furniture. If you have any personal favorites I haven’t mentioned, leave them in the comments below!

Toys

But what do we do with all these new, fun situations? Here are a few toys, or spanking tools, you can integrate into the process now that you’ve assumed the position:

#1 In honor of #SexToyTuesday, my first suggestion is Chicago’s Early To Bed Jack Boot Paddle (to the right). Be warned, this paddle is not for beginners or light dabblers. This boot-shaped paddle packs a punch! The boot print is made of rubber and the paddle wood, so there is NO give! When you get spanked, you will definitely feel it!

#2 If the serious-business paddles aren’t really your style, why not try the back of a hairbrush? It’s much smaller and while plastic or wood still stings, it’s easier and cheaper to experiment with. Similarly, you can use a wooden spoon.

#3 Another wooden option would be a cane, which comes in all lengths and girths.

#4 Standard paddle (comes in materials such as soft leather, rubber, or wood and can even be found with feathers or a soft material cover for a lighter sensation).

#5 Riding crop, which is long and generally comes with a handle on one end and small, flat spanking surface on the other. These are effective in causing quick, sharp and stinging sensations.

#6 The classic hand. While pretty standard and totally free, there is definitely a variety of techniques that can be used. These include flat hand with fingers spread, cupped hand, hard open palm, an immediate spank-and-grope, and basically anything else you can think of!

#7 Although this isn’t necessarily “spanking,” flogs and whips are also great for delivering a backside-beating.

As always, feel free to comment about your own favorite toys!

This article was written by Rachel Colias. She’s currently getting her bachelors in English and Women’s and Gender studies and feels especially passionate about advocating for the importance of consent and communication. 

Her hobbies include shopping for new vibrators playing roller derby, and getting tattoos her mom doesn’t approve of. When she’s not writing for GetLusty or doing homework, she’s playing with her bearded dragon Terrance and you can generally find her reading comic books with her loving boyfriend of six years or eating pizza and watching Netflix. You can find and follow her Tumblr blog here! Also connect with her at editorial@getlusty.com.

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Dildo 101: The History of the Phallus

From Freud to historical art, we love history at GetLusty headquarters! We love history so much that we want to learn as much as we can about sex's past. Just recently we dove into the history of the blowjob. Since we got great response to that post, we decided to give you all the history of the dildo! Where did the dildo come from and who invented it? Well, Bethany Kibblesmith is here to answer all your historical questions revolving around this phallic toy.

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Have you wondered where and when your favorite phallic friend sprang into existence? Well, the history of the dildo is actually quite an interesting story. It’s a long one, too.

Fake penises have been a part of human culture since before we had writing, metal tools and agriculture. The oldest phallus found that could have been used for insertion dates back around 30,000 years, hailing from Germany. Archaeologists have all but called this a dildo. The reluctance to label it a dildo is one I share, because it’s so difficult to substantiate claims on prehistoric cultures.

As well, it’s impossible to tell whether these were used by women, men or both, and such claims have a tendency to ruffle various feathers. You can’t very well tell Swedes that the most recently found Ice Age “baton” (archaeologists’ codeword for dildo) was probably up their ancestor’s butt. At least not without proof. It’s hard enough to call things dildos, with the assumption that they were for vaginal insertion.

Labeling artifacts as sex toys is even trickier when you consider that almost all cultures have had a fertility god at some point in their existence, and subsequently we have an absolute truckload of fake penises used for religious purposes. As for masturbatory uses, women have used wooden dildos, leather ones, and stone dildos. They were even sometimes made of tar and straw. Yikes!

The dildo has a surprisingly public presence throughout history. Greek comedies have many references to women buying or using dildos, and in one play mourning the loss of hers. Poems and plays told tales of lusty, dildo-obsessed women and dildo-makers hiding their real profession under various fronts. One Greek vase even shows a man inserting a dildo into a woman’s anus while she fellates a different man (Greek sexuality is a whole other article).

While it was usually used for comic effect in Greece, other parts of the world saw the dildo very differently. Chinese women, for example, used dildos that were made of lacquered wood, and lovingly crafted with grooves, bumps and all kinds of stimulating little details. Lacquer was made from beetles at this time, and this was an expensive, time-consuming process. What this tells us is how important a pretty dildo was! More seriously, dildos weren’t being hidden away shamefully, but were in fact significant enough for lacquer.

India had a similar lack of embarrassment for dildos. The Kama Sutra, as one of the most well-known sexy texts, is a great source for old-timey dildo information. It lists FIVE different ways to construct dildos, along with very detailed instructions on what materials to use. What is most significant in this, is the dildo is incorporated into coupled sex, not masturbation. Furthermore, the incorporation of sex aids was solely for improving the woman’s pleasure. This positive attitude towards women’s sexual pleasure is much more common in Eastern history than in Europe.

Europe presents a stark contrast to India and China. For example, in a medieval penitential — a book listing sinful acts and corresponding punishments — the reader is quizzed as to whether she has ever fashioned a fake penis for her sexual pleasure. In fact, the penitential goes so far as to correlate women’s lust to the size of the dildo they fashion. The punishment ascribed? Penance on holy days, for five years. I don’t know how much you know about medieval religiosity, but there were a lot of freaking holy days.

It is from England, though, that we get the word dildo. At least by the 1590s, dildo referred to penises. To the right, you'll see examples of 18th Century dildos from England. The word was common in bawdy songs, and even appeared in a Shakespeare play. When the word dildo was used, it was in a naughty sex song intended to make listeners laugh. “Signior Dildo” is a perfect example, and contains tons of innuendos and sex puns.

Dildos have appearances in pornographic literary works, from the 17th century onwards. Victorian private diaries chronicle dildo usage. Saul Bellow and Williams S. Burroughs refer to them in their 1950s era books. And of course, the dildo’s incorporation into pornography gradually begins around the 1900s, around the time of photography’s rise, until it becomes a mainstay for masturbatory and lesbian flicks.

As a whole, culturally, technologically, and so on, humanity has advanced far past the days of the medieval era. However, there is one aspect in which we haven’t advanced at all: the humorous aspect of the dildo has yet to lose any of its power. Though John Wilmot’s “Signior Dildo” was published 339 years ago, dildos are still a punch line.

Women and sexuality are still complicated subjects for most people. Treating something used for solo pleasure humorously actually shows a lot of distrust and insecurity, possibly because it excludes men. Women who admit to masturbating are still sometimes treated oddly, like hypersexuals, and vibrators and dildos are relegated to the sock drawer, the shoebox in the closet, or some other hidden little spot. Women are expected to be mortified if their dildo is uncovered unexpectedly, rather than shrug it off and say, “Yeah, that’s mine. So what?” Even though progressive attitudes toward sexuality have been increasing more and more as time passes, sex toys and masturbation are still somewhat taboo.

Worldwide, there are still countries where dildo possession and selling is illegal. Ironically, considering its history, India is one of these countries. What might surprise you is that it’s only in recent times in the U.S. that laws against sex toys have been abolished.

Texas only legalized dildos in 2008. Alabama, in fact, still has laws against the selling of sex toys, to this very day. What makes this issue more complicated are the use of religious rhetoric and religious leaders classing sex toys in biblical arguments. An Irish preacher went so far as to say “there is no moral way to use one of these devices” and blamed the humble dildo for causing poor morals and promiscuity. Never mind that exactly zero babies and STDs have been caused solely by dildo use.

Today, regardless of illegality in some countries, glass, acrylic and silicon dildos vary wildly in shape and size. Many are beautiful enough to set up on a shelf like any other artwork. If you’re looking to buy one, for your health’s sake, please avoid PVC! I know they’re a little cheaper, but other materials are safer. PVC leaches out cancer and birth defect causing chemicals, and it cannot be sterilized. Silicon, glass and steel are much better options for your health, and will last much longer. Consider what stimulation would please you best and look for a good material in the shape best designed for that kind of stimulation.

We're very excited to have Bethany Kibblesmith as GetLusty's newest writer. She's passionate about keeping it sexy inside and outside the bedroom in her own relationship and in yours.

Bethany is twenty-two and an English major. When she isn't scrambling to finish homework, she's with her boyfriend, reading, doing yoga or cooking. She enjoys the finer things in life like, secondhand clothes, warm showers, and socks without holes. She writes plays when she isn't writing for school or GetLusty. And if you meet her she will, without question, make a sex joke at some point. Email her at Bethany@GetLusty.com if you have any questions!

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1 Day Left! Win a LELO Tiani™ 2 From SheVibe!

Dear readers,

We love sex toys, as you may have seen. Since it's Thanksgiving week and nearly Christmas, what better time to enjoy sex toys? We thought so, too! Just in time for #SexToyTuesday and #ToyWithMeTuesday.

Why we love SheVibe? Let us count the ways...

#1 Their name. SheVibe? Yes, please!

#2 Their great customer feedback. For example, check out this customers' review, "Sandra, you've been absolutely awesome! I've bought intimate items locally and from several different companies online. I've NEVER had the customer service like you've provided. I will definitely be a return customer!! :) Thank you so much for all for your help." -- T.L.

#3 SheVibe has made the commitment to add only body safe products to the site going forward. This means premium silicone and premium materials only. Above all, they encourage customers to vibe responsibly! According to SheVibe, sex is a healthy expression of life so make it fun and always play safe.

Why is LELO Tiani™ 2 the ultimate couples sex toy?

Let's start off with LELO; it's an awesome sex toy company! They make high quality, well designed sex toys and accessories. The world’s leading designer brand for intimate lifestyle products, LELO was launched in 2003. According to LELO, the company has been famous for transforming the look, feel and function of how personal massagers are perceived, bringing a new level of luxury to products of this kind.

Now about the sex toy itself. The Tiani™ 2 Design Edition is the upgraded version of the Red Dot award-winning couples’ massager, designed for women to wear when making love. LELO’s unique SenseMotion™ technology allows users to control sensations during lovemaking through movements of a remote; while all-new enhancements including the 50% more powerful motor and 3X greater wireless range increase possibilities still further.

Fully waterproof for easy cleaning or use in the bath or shower, Tiani™ 2 can now be controlled with or without the remote and comes with a new full-feeling attachment that offers extra-targeted pleasures, bringing increased stimulation and total control to even the most adventurous positions.

How to use it? More details, including a YouTube video tutorial, here

• For couples, use it while making love (he or you can have the remote to amp the fun factor as the signal travels up to 48 feet)
• Use it as a vibrator for masturbation (without penetration)
• Use it for nipple stimulation

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Chicago! Pick Up Your Free Trojan Vibrator on Black Friday

We love sex toys. It's #ToyWithMeTuesday, so we're thinking about sex toys especially today! Then, we just got word from Trojan they're giving away free vibrators. Oh, my!

According to the RedEye Chicago, "Anyone willing to stand in line at the Original Mother's this Friday from 12 to 4 p.m. can receive a free Trojan vibrator, courtesy of Trojan. There will be a 'Pleasure Cart' set up near Mother's, looking like a food truck but very much not a food truck."

What kind of vibrators are they giving away? The Trojan Tri-Phoria or Pulse, both of which retail at around $40. Trojan is also giving away thousands more pleasure pieces and have already sent the campaign to New York City and Washington DC. Curious about the toys? Check out their profiles below!

More on the Tri-Phoria 'intimate massager'

According to their website: There’s so much the Tri·Phoria™ Intimate Massager can do…and that gives you a multitude of options! The three tips imitate your favorite sensations—firm pressure, tongue-like flickering and gentle focused stimulation.

Tri·Phoria™ Intimate Massager boasts 8 settings—5 speeds and 3 pulse patterns. This unparalleled combination provides seemingly endless options for your senses. Change it up or find a favorite you can rely on.

More on the Pulse 'intimate massager'

Pulse Intimate Massager puts pleasure right where you want it. It can deliver an intense, focused external stimulation, which may be particularly good for women who enjoy clitoral stimulation.

So GetLusty readers--get downtown and your free vibrator. Wondering where? Check out the location (the Original Mothers) on Google Maps below.

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Inflating Anal Toys: 4 Reasons You Should Try Them

Desire a more fulfilling anal experience? There's more out there than regular ol' butt plugs. Frances Denzel provides us with four benefits of using an inflatable butt plug instead of a regular butt plug. Bottoms up!

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“My girlfriend said our sex life was getting dull, and I should try to think outside the box. So I stuck it her up her arse.” Yes, this is a joke, but there is some truth hidden between the lines… Anal exploration is often the final frontier of erotic playtime and an attempt at making the sex life more exciting.

Inflatable anal toys are one of those mysterious adult products associated with fetishism, and often considered too “hardcore” for many people. In my experience, more people will reach for a large butt plug over an expandable one. Are back-door inflatables really worth the hype or is this a novelty you should leave on the shelf? I personally think they are a wonderful invention worth consideration. This is why:

#1 Less Strain on the Sphincter Muscles 

The anus is a sphincter made for exiting, not entering. Deep inside the rectum are nerve endings that enhance sexual enjoyment, and tapping into this potential with a larger plug feels better, ultimately creating a conflict between safety and enjoyment. The inflating plug inserts with the same girth as a “medium” sized plug, expanding into a “large” plug once inside, saving your sensitive sphincter. If the plug is too large it’s very easy to tear the delicate tissue surrounding the opening. As a side note, some people like using desensitizing anal lube which, personally, I don’t think is a good idea. This is because if the area is numb it creates the possibility of tissue damage, which doesn't make for a pleasant trip to the doctor’s office. An expanding plug can give you girth without the painful entry.

#2 More Even (and Better) Internal Pressure

One of the top benefits of anal toys is adding pressure around the rectum and rubbing sensitive nerve endings, enhancing sexual pleasure. Inflating a balloon inside allows the expanding latex to ease into every crevasse, shaping itself specifically to caress every internal detail. All this occurs evenly as you squeeze the hand bulb, maximizing the space of contact for the most “full” feeling possible.

#3 Maximizes Comfort during Intercourse & Sex Toy Use

Another reason adults purchase butt plugs is to wear them during sex. Amplifying every thrust, the larger the plug the more sensation you’ll feel as the vaginal canal becomes tighter. The inflatable plug is very soft, concaving inward with each advancing thrust of the penis (or vibrator), effectively preventing any stiff pinch or uncomfortable poke. A disadvantage of a large solid plug is they can’t accommodate movement, pushing on the body and increasing the possibility of discomfort.

#4 Silent vibration

Most inflatables also vibrate. I find myself easily distracted by loud buzzing noises, certainly I’m not the only person with this sentiment, and many sex toys are crazy-loud. The motor in an inflatable is contained inside the solid core of the plug. When the balloon is inflated, the noise is well absorbed by the hollow latex bubble making this one of the most silent sex toys ever.

It’s easy to understand how an expanding plug can seem intimidating with squeeze bulbs, wires, and cords all hanging from the base, but remember you don’t need to inflate the entire 3 inch girth. Even if you only give it a few pumps with the bulb, the difference in sensation between this style and a standard plug is very interesting, and a superb way to “try something out of the box”.

Check out the toys Frances is talking about and see for yourself at http://www.theadulttoyshop.com/anal-toys/inflatable.

Cross posted with permission from Sunny Megatron's Blog.

This was a guest post from Frances Denzel that originally appeared at SunnyMegatron.com. Frances writes erotic advice columns helping couples share in one of the best parts of being human – enjoying great sex. She promotes a healthy love life through guidance and education with a humorous twist.

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4 Lusty Sex Toys for Breast Cancer Awareness

Breast Cancer Awareness month is in full swing. So that's why we were excited to hear PinkCherry is offering their toys at a discount, and also donating $1 per item to the Breast Cancer Society. While it's #SexToyTuesday (and #ToyWithMeTuesday) we thought — let's feature toys to benefit the Breast Cancer Society!

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In GetLusty-land, it's Orgasm October! And what else is awesome in October? Breast Cancer Awareness Month! Save the ta-tas and keep 'em sexy! Here at GetLusty, we love to support a grand cause, so we must must must encourage you lovely readers to head on over to Pinkcherry for their Breast Cancer Awareness sale! Everything pink from cock rings to breast clips to vibrators, up to 75% off. Even better?

Evolved Novelties presents its Faith Pink Ribbon Vibe. With a percentage of each toy sale going towards breast cancer research, this portable sleek vibrator is a perfect addition for both beginners and seasoned veterans. Why? Not only is it super hygienic with a smooth surface, it only takes one AA battery to run! Also, water proof and it's discrete size and color make it an easy tag-along with any trip (with or without your lover).

And while you're adding the Faith Vibe to your virtual shopping cart, why not check out a few more pink goodies that will add to your vibrator experience? I highly suggest these three bonus items:

If you haven't tried a cock ring, try it guilt free now. They're also offering Silicone Island Rings for more than 50% off. These are grand for beginners, as they come in three graduated sizes. Especially recommended for the man wanting to up his endurance. A head's up: watch your man-mane down there. As these are rubbery (silicone), chances are an un-manscaped lawn may lose a few hairs if not careful. But don't let that frighten you off. Cock rings not only extend your love session, but rub up against her clit for some extra sexy stimulation. Both teams win!

Whilst supporting Breast Cancer Awareness, why not bring some awareness to your own set of lovely breasts? With these Sequined Tassels, your partner won't be able to look away. Definitely incorporate these into some mad kinky foreplay, with a floor show and all! My tip: send a subtle camera pic to your partner mid-day of your tassled ta-tas to get him riled for more.

A thrilling addition to any vibrator or fleshy male-counterpart, the G-Spot Extension adds that extra inch to really blow your mind, ladies. It's made of flexible jelly, slips easily onto the penis/vibrator head, and sits at the perfect angle to rub you just right. Just remember: water-based lube, your sex toys will thank you. I highly suggest this paired with your brand new Faith Vibe for a rocking good night, either solo or with your partner!

Just remember, readers, this month is a one for cherishing those beautiful boobs. So, if anything, go home to your lady (or, lady readers, look in a mirror) and love on those lovely ta-tas tonight!

This is a guest post by GetLusty writer, Ellen Dukes. Though Ellen Dukes is not an ethical slut (a damn respectable title, she'll have you know), her curiosity, openness, and the indefatigable search engine Google have lead her to a 21st century sex education.

A Chicagoan, you may see Ellen enjoying the delights of her deeply loving relationship with her boyfriend. Have a naughty story? She's heard naughtier, but tell her all the same at ellen@getlusty.com. She's a wannabe sexpert with years of porn viewing, listening to sex stories, and textbook browsing just waiting to put this knowledge to wonderful use.

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Feel at Home at Tulip Toy Gallery

This article is by GetLusty for Couples contributing writer Greg Dorn. Greg writes primarily about business and events around the Chicago area to keep couple's sex lives, fresh, fun and stimulating. With a girlfriend of over 2 years, Greg has visited a plethora of sex toy shops to keep his own sex life exhilarating and electrifying. After visiting Tulip Toy Gallery, he thinks you will too. There are two Tulip Galleries, but this one focused on Tulip in Andersonville.

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The minute you step inside Tulip Toy Gallery, you immediately know you're in the quirky and hip Andersonville neighborhood. Located at 1480 W Berwyn Ave directly off the Berwyn Red Line stop, it's a hop, skip and jump away from virtually anywhere in the city.

The shop is small, yet packs a big punch. The selection of erotic goodies and sexy outfits will keep you there much longer than you probably had expected.

Like the area itself, the shop's selling point is it's warm and welcoming environment. Known primarily as a must-visit destination for the surrounding lesbian community, the friendly staff will keep you engaged for hours. You come for the items, you stay for the conversation. The knowledgeable staff offers a non-judgmental environment, as conversation, chitchat and laughter fill this tiny gem. Shy shoppers be aware, the staff will joyfully talk your ear off (and offer you ways to nibble on them).

Oh yea, and they have anything you can possibly want for an erotic evening reserved only for your wildest fantasies (believe me, this place will help make them a reality). The sex toys for both men and women are plentiful.

This north side Chicago joint even lets you try items out of the box so you know exactly what you're getting yourself into (or into you). The toys aren't the only items lining the walls of this eye-catching gallery. You'll find a terrific selection of books and erotic movies for all interests. Come alone, come with a friend or a whole group. With the hands-on experience, you may never leave!

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This is a guest post by Greg Dorn. 

Greg is a self-employed day trader who loves writing. He aims to think about sex whenever possible, including a variety of ways to enhance his own love life. If you don't see Greg crunching numbers, you'll find him enjoying the beauty of his wonderful girlfriend around Chicago. Want to give recommendations of businesses, products or sexy events around Chicago you'd like covered? E-mail Greg with your ideas to editorial@getlusty.com.

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Sqweel 2: the Tongue Toy Reviewed for #SexToyTuesday

So we'll be drawing a name today for the Sqweel 2. But before we do, we just wanted to give you a little taste of the Sqweel phenomenon. It's the, "World's Best Selling Oral Sex Toy". But what does that mean for your pleasure? Charity from Mom's Toy Boxxx is here to talk about what she found wonderful, amazing and less amazing about the Sqweel 2. And stay tuned to find out the winner!

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Squeel 2 (10 tongues at my command? Yes please!)

Maybe it's been a while since I've had some great oral sex. But is it wrong that I got wet just looking at this? The idea of 10 tongues at my control is just too good! I used a dildo with the Sqweel 2, in hindsight I should have used one without a base to it, as the base ended up getting in the way.

Mom notes:

- Non-penis looking. But I still think it would be hard to come up with an explanation if your kids found it.
- Not a "quick-hiding" toy (you have to hold the power button down to turn it off)
- I would consider this a loud toy. I couldn't use it while my partner is asleep beside me and it's not waterproof, so you'll need some "mommy time" to enjoy this one
- Takes at least 3 minutes to wash & dry it at a sink (make sure you have the time right after use)
- You'll need 3-AAA batteries and lube

First Impressions:

- The box it came in was cute! Check out the little pinwheel decal on the sides (see pic)
- Not a victim of over-packaging
- Smaller than I anticipated (in a good way)

This product was provided to me by Ohhh Canada, an online store that only ships within Canada. The box was plain and had no markings to indicate it was from a sex store. Check out there website and their logo; how cute! The site is great for moms, it's female-friendly (no raunchy porn pics here), and the store is founded and run by women (yay!).

Side notes
 
- You may need to trim your pubic hair ladies. Not for possible tangles (that can't happen due to the design of this toy), but for easier access to your clitoris.
- You also may want a pillow under your bottom for more ergonomic angle.

Review

It's marketed as "The World's Best Selling Oral Sex Toy". How many oral sex toys are there out there for women? Personally I don't care if it's the "best selling", I want to know if it feels good.

So, let's cut to the chase. The 6 million dollar question: Does it really feel like oral sex? No, in my opinion it doesn't feel like oral sex. Mainly because there is no heat - a mouth is hot (literally and figuratively) and unless your partner is a robot, a live tongue isn't able to reach the speeds the Sqweel 2 does. However - that's not to say the Squeel 2 doesn't have it's advantages!

The tongues are soft and flexible. Even at their highest speed I found them pleasurable. You'll need to apply a water-based lubricant to the tongues and yourself prior to use. To apply, I put the toy on low and drizzled a bit of the lube onto the moving tongues, then used my finger to spread it around while they were sill moving.

There are 3 speeds that work in forward and reverse. There is a forth setting where the tongues move back-forth-back-forth-back-forth (seven settings altogether). You move through each setting by pushing the on/off switch over and over again - a bit distracting but also easy to access with your index finger while using the toy (see photo)

On its own the Squeel 2's volume is similar to a vibrating cell phone, but once you start using it against your body the volume increases to a deeper, louder buzzing.

It is easy to wash, but takes 3 minutes (I timed myself). Because I used a water-based lubricant I was able to clean it with just water. You'll need to take it apart and wash all three pieces. BUT remember the large base is NOT waterproof and the battery compartment is NOT water-resistant. I did not remember this when I was washing it and ended up getting a small amount of water in with the batteries (no harm done).

Another plus is that it can be used all over the body - nipples, ear lobes, neck, where ever you like. The only improvement I would like to see is some type of grip added to the sides. The case is hard plastic and gets slippery with the slightest amount of lubricant.

I totally recommend the Squeel 2. It's fun, different and would make a great gift for a friend.

Good

- Unique
- Adjustable motor speed
- Power button is conveniently placed for when in use
- Easy to clean

Not So Good

- Gets slippery if lube is on fingers/hands
- Not waterproof

Bottom Line

Type: All over body, intended for clitoris
Volume = 3/5
Cost = $ (apprx $50 CAD/ $50 USD)
Storage Size = Box/Drawer
Power = 3-AAA
Waterproof = No
Good for = Beginner+

Personal Experience: 3.5/5

Originally posted at Mom's Toy Boxxx.

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Charity is the author of Mom's Toy Boxxx, a sex toy review site for moms. After having kids Charity found her sex toy needs changed. "Volume" control, toy storage, cost and ease of use all took on new meanings once kids were in the house. Even a toy's appearance can influence a mom's purchase: as she's written: "I'd rather my kids find my vibrator than a phallic-looking dildo"!

Being a mom can be exhausting, and by the time the kids are asleep, sometimes the last thing a mom wants to do is put time and energy into getting off. Foreplay often takes too long, or isn't long enough and does not guarantee an orgasm. There's nothing wrong with a quickie, but it just doesn't satisfy like a toy can. Charity's goal is to help moms navigate the vast toy market quickly and efficiently to find satisfying items...and remember that just because you're a mom, doesn't mean you're sexual needs aren't still a big part of the picture! Follow Charity on Twitter @MomsToyBoxxx.

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